Posted by d on December 18, 1999 at 01:20:01:
In Reply to: Re: I'm not Arion posted by Sozhka Z. on December 17, 1999 at 23:48:14:
Obviously, I was being somewhat hypothetical.
I have and hope to again be privilaged to be such a friend to a young person, but I will refuse sex. If you read my story, I have and will go to the effort to "make love" in my own way: Create a friendship in which both of us love each other as close friends, not in any romantic way. One such friendship is going on almost 10 years now.
BoyChat is full of people (almost all pedophiles, but many sexless) who have Young Friends. A cardinal rule of boychat is you can't attempt to meet young people, and if you are a young person, you can't attempt to meet old people. Sorry, but this is to keep the FBI (federal police) from seizing the computer BoyChat and BoyWrite run on.
I don't know what the customs are in your country. In the
United States, married people are not supposed to come on to
anyone, teachers are not supposed to come on to students, and
in most parts of the United States, adults are not supposed to
come on to 14 year olds.
So if you were in the United States, I would say:
You should not do anything with your teacher. He could get
into big trouble with his wife, his boss, and if it's illegal
for him to do this, the police. He should know better, and
should never have come on to you or anyone else as long as he
is married, and he should never come on to students.
Also, since both of you wrote the essay, you should write your
own essay without his help, because it is important that you
know how to do it.
Take care,
-David ("d" on BoyWrite)